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Father please give me my daily bread – child maintenance

May 13, 2012bertusLatest News0

According to the Institute of Race Relations 9 million children in South Africa grow up with absent fathers. One may assume that the majority of these fathers don’t pay any child maintenance and then an alarming number of fathers in South Africa default on their child maintenance payments. It is a novel idea when people and celebrities alike engage in projects such as “Save the Rhino” but don’t we miss the point? Has the time not come to throw our weight behind projects to save the many thousands of children in South Africa who must suffer the consequences of an absent father who don’t pay child maintenance?  With the increase in divorce and the number of children born outside marriage, more and more women find themselves bearing the sole responsibility of caring for their children.

It is generally accepted that children with fathers who default on their maintenance payments grow up with a strong sense of resentment and rejection. When a parent fails to pay maintenance for their child, the child ends up feeling depressed, disadvantaged and unloved. The non-payment of maintenance, results in degeneration of the family unit and the children are sometimes driven to a life of crime.

In 2005 the government launched Operation Isondlo a maintenance defaulter programme with its aims to decrease the backlog of maintenance cases. This was indeed a noble initiative for which government must be applauded but in reality the effectiveness of the programme is doubtful having regard to the many women complaining about the ineffectiveness and inability to bring defaulters to book.

In 2011 the Western Cape Department of Justice and Constitutional Development released a list of 7 084 fathers across the Western Cape who were in arrears with their maintenance payments. The fathers collectively owed close to R16 million to their children in maintenance, with one father owing more than R200 000. Some women don’t even bother to approach the maintenance court because they feel that it is a pointless exercise. But the reality is that it is not only fathers who default in paying their child maintenance and the second biggest maintenance defaulter captured last year in Cape Town was a woman who owed her child R112 000. It was also found that there are mothers who did not collect their child maintenance and in 2011 about R 1 million in maintenance had been allocated for mothers who simply failed to collect it.

Much sterner measures need to be put into place to compel fathers to pay maintenance. In reality many of these father’s also shift the responsibility to the mother’s new husband or partner which is an extra burden in the harsh economic climate that we live in.

Some of the problems in our maintenance system include inadequately trained court staff and insufficient facilities and resources. The problems in our maintenance system cannot be resolved through the process of legislation alone, but by also creating a culture of maintenance payment amongst all those that are legally liable to maintain those in need of maintenance. If there is no respect for the law, the maintenance system will fail. A well functioning and effective maintenance system is critical not only for the children in South Africa.

We need to find measures to expedite maintenance application procedures, application processing, payments and punitive measures for defaulting parents. The possibility of Saturday courts for maintenance and other matters related to family law need to be investigated and the possibility to introducing mediation services in maintenance matters. In order to address the problem the media need to be engaged in creating awareness of the growing problems regarding child maintenance.

Legally, a duty of support exists between people who have a familial bond. A person who owes another person a duty of support may have to pay maintenance for that person, if the person has the means to provide maintenance and if the receiving person is in need of maintenance. The law requires a child to be supported or maintained by both his/her parents, whether married, living together, separated or divorced or by both his/her grandparents, in certain cases. South African law imposes a duty on both maternal and paternal grandparents to contribute towards maintenance if the child’s parents are unable to do so in part or in full. There is a duty of support between siblings, both full and half brothers and sisters where the parents and grandparents are unable to provide support, but the support does not extend to include tertiary education of a major sibling. Effectively this means that a mother in need of maintenance of her child may summons the paternal grandparents to the maintenance court if the father is unable to pay.

Source: http://voices.news24.com/bertus-preller/2012/05/child-maintenance/

Contact details:

Bertus Preller

bertus@divorceattorney.co.za

O: 021 422 1323

Divorce – what women should know

Making the decision to divorce is a tough one, and the chances are it’s followed by an even more traumatic lead-up to the divorce, it is like a roller-coaster on an emotional track.

Women are mostly in the dark when it comes to the financial affairs of her husband and women are encouraged to gather as much financial information about their husband’s financial affairs before the divorce proceedings commence, to establish the magnitude of the estate.

It is extremely important for any woman to know what’s going on in her husband’s financial affairs. It’s difficult when you don’t have access to his share portfolio or balance sheet, but one must reasonably expect to get an idea of financial affairs.

An attorney cannot negotiate on behalf of a spouse without knowing in advance what the estate is worth.

In many divorce settlements, the wife ends up seeing what the estate is worth only late in the divorce process.

16 Important points to consider in divorce:

  1. Make copies of your husband’s bank statements, credit card statements and get hold of the short-term insurance policies as well as copies of pension funds and retirement funds. This will provide input on the extent of assets available and the value of the estate.
  2. If you are married in community of property or out of community of property with the accrual you have to ask your attorney to build a clause into the settlement agreement to say if any assets that come to light after the divorce settlement, you will be entitled to 50% of those assets and the husband will have to pay the legal fees involved in the recovery process of those assets when they do come to light.
  3. A more accurate sense of assets will come to light if the divorce is contested as parties are required to disclose any information to do with financial affairs. In terms of the court rules the husband can be required to make full disclosure of his assets and liabilities and you will be able to obtain all financial information spanning over a period of 3 years or more, including bank statements, credit card statements, investments etc.
  4. Women are advised not to leave the matrimonial home if there are minor children involved, because it provides a sense of stability for the kids. It’s better for the husband to leave if the husband is not the primary caregiver. If a husband makes himself guilty of abuse, the wife can get a restraining order to evict him from the property under certain circumstances or restrain him to enter certain areas of the house.
  5. Where the parties are married in community of property the wife is entitled to half the pension or retirement annuity fund. In a marriage out of community with the accrual, the pension fund will be regarded as part of the husband’s assets for purposes of calculating the accrual that the wife will be entitled to.
  6. In terms of the Divorce Act, the wife (if married in community of property) can choose to ask for the pension fund money to be paid in cash, or transferred to a pension fund of her choice.  Normally pension funds pay out the wife’s portion in 3 to 6 months after the divorce.
  7. Make a list of your monthly income and expenses, as if you’re going to live on your own with your children. It’s important because you get situations where the wife is not working or earns much less than the husband and doesn’t have the money to fight a divorce battle.  She can bring an application pending a divorce, for interim maintenance, which means contributing maintenance before the divorce is finalised. She can also apply for contribution to her legal expenses. If interim-maintenance is granted and the husband does not comply with the court order, he is in contempt of court.
  8. In some instances the wife can apply for emergency monetary relief in the magistrate’s court pending the institution of an application for interim maintenance by utilizing the provisions of the domestic violence act because the husband has blocked the use of credit.
  9. Interim maintenance falls away once the divorce order is granted. There have been situations where the wife has been granted very favourable interim maintenance terms, so sometimes a divorce is stalled  in order to continue getting a hearty amount of money each month.
  10. The granting of interim maintenance in a Rule 43 application cannot be appealed. The only way the husband can minimize this is if he goes back to court and explains and proves that his financial situation has changed so much that he’s entitled to a reduction. But this does not happen easily.
  11. Many battles in a divorce surround the children. Normally the wife is the parent of primary residence and the husband the parent of alternate residence. Increasingly, there’s a shared parenting approach with children staying with the mother for a week and then the father for a week and each party takes care of the children during that period.  I see a lot of children used as a pawn. It is important to get a parenting plan in place as soon as possible, and register that with the family advocate and stipulate that if issues arise with parenting and the children the parties need to go to a psychologist or a social worker to facilitate contact.
  12. In matters where money is not fought over, it may make financial sense to go to one lawyer who can work for both parties. But a divorce that is acrimonious requires that each party needs a lawyer to assist.
  13. A few mediation organizations exist where people can see a mediator to resolve disputes, to settle with both parties. The mediator doesn’t have the authority to issue and award for damages but he can facilitate the settlement process. If an abusive husband is involved, mediation is unlikely to work.  But it can work if the divorce is not acrimonious. Normally the spouses have to pay the costs of a mediator 50/50. Sometimes this route can be more expensive than an uncontested divorce, depending on the amount of sessions that the parties have to attend.
  14. Where a couple owns a property together, they need to decide whether both parties want to keep the interest in the property, sell the property and split the proceeds, or whether one wants to buy out the other. The decision has financial implications because of transfer duties and tax.
  15. It’s important to consider instances where the husband has no real assets. An insurance policy should be taken out in the event that the husband passes away and there is no money to help cover maintenance, in case of his death.
  16. The decision to divorce is always a business decision. You need to look at what happens until the children turn 21 or becomes self supporting, that there’s maintenance, medical cover for them, a school education and whether it’s government or private school and tertiary education.

Source: http://divorceattorneys.wordpress.com/2012/04/30/divorce-what-every-woman-should-know/

About the Author:

Bertus Preller is a Divorce Attorney at Abrahams and Gross in Cape Town, a law firm that has been in existence since 1935 and has more than 20 years experience in most sectors of the law and 13 years as a practicing attorney. He specializes in Family Law and Divorce Law in and handles divorce and family law matters across South Africa. Bertus is also the Family Law expert on Health24.com, he blogs regularly on news24.com and nuus24.com and has been quoted on Family Law issues in various newspapers such as the Sunday Times and Business Times and magazines such as Noseweek, Keur, Living and Loving, Longevity, You and Huisgenoot, and also appears frequently on the SABC television show 3 Talk. His clients include artists, celebrities, sports people and high net worth individuals. His areas of expertise are Divorce Law, Family Law, Divorce Mediation, Parenting Plans, Parental Responsibilities and Rights, Custody (care and contact) of children, same sex marriages, unmarried fathers rights, domestic violence matters, international divorce law, digital rights, media law and criminal law.

Contact details

bertus@divorceattorney.co.za or follow him on Twitter: @bertuspreller

O: 021 422 1323

Watershed Case for Same-Sex Partners with Children

April 26, 2012bertusLatest News0

Some time ago I wrote an article about an application argued in the Cape Town High Court in the matter of CM v NG. Judgement in this matter was reserved and handed down by Gangen A J on 26 April 2012. Family Law experts, Adv Julia Anderssen and Adv Retha Maas two Cape Town Advocates argued this matter. The case can be regarded as a watershed case for same sex couples with children and will be a reported judgement.

This was an application in terms of Sections 23 and 24 of the Children’s Act 39 of 2005 (“the Act”) and concerned parties that was involved in a same sex relationship for several years. The parties did not register a marriage. During the relationship, a child was conceived by artificial insemination. The relationship between the parties started in May 2005 ended their relationship in November 2010. The applicant (not the biological mother) lodged an application to court and requested an order granting her full parental rights and responsibilities in respect of the minor child.

When the parties ended their relationship the Applicant still had contact with the minor child until approximately April 2011. During April 2011 the Respondent (biological mother) advised the Applicant that she wanted to stop her contact with the minor child. Her reason was that it was not in the minor child’s best interests. The child was in the biological mother’s care at the time. The applicant then lodged an application to court in April 2011 compelling the biological mother to co-operate with the Family Advocate and an expert identified by the applicant.

The Children’s Act is clear on the point that someone does not have automatic parental rights in terms of Sections 19 and 22 of the Act if there is no biological link to a child and such a person. Furthermore the Applicant does not acquire automatic rights and responsibilities in terms of Section 40 of the Act which deals with children conceived by artificial insemination. Without a parental agreement the Applicant could therefore only apply to the court in terms of Sections 23(2) and 24(2) of the Act. Common to both these Sections is the “best interests” of the child.

The court found that the Applicant did indeed have parental responsibilities and rights as set out in Section 18 as it would be in the best interests of the child to have a relationship with both parents. The court concluded that both parties be co-holders of parental rights and responsibilities in respect of the minor child as contemplated in sections 18(2) (3) (4) and (5) of the 2005 Children’s Act and that the Applicant’s shall be co-guardians of the child.

About the Author:

Bertus Preller is a Divorce Attorney at Abrahams and Gross in Cape Town, a law firm that has been in existence since 1935 and has more than 20 years experience in most sectors of the law and 13 years as a practicing attorney. He specializes in Family Law and Divorce Law in and handles divorce and family law matters across South Africa. Bertus is also the Family Law expert on Health24.com, he blogs regularly on news24.com and nuus24.com and has been quoted on Family Law issues in various newspapers such as the Sunday Times and Business Times and magazines such as Noseweek, Keur, Living and Loving, Longevity, You and Huisgenoot, and also appears frequently on the SABC television show 3 Talk. His clients include artists, celebrities, sports people and high net worth individuals. His areas of expertise are Divorce Law, Family Law, Divorce Mediation, Parenting Plans, Parental Responsibilities and Rights, Custody (care and contact) of children, same sex marriages, unmarried fathers rights, domestic violence matters, international divorce law, digital rights, media law and criminal law.

Contact details

bertus@divorceattorney.co.za

O: 021 422 1323

Source:

http://divorceattorneys.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/watershed-case-about-parental-rights-and-responsibilities-of-children-from-a-same-sex-relationship/

Children are not pawns in the deadly game of divorce

April 24, 2012bertusLatest News0

Parental alienation involves the systematic brainwashing, poisoning and manipulation of children with the sole purpose of destroying a loving and warm relationship they once shared with a parent.  As everyone knows, divorces can often be acrimonious. Add children to the mix, and the animosity heightens even more, as both parents strive to do what they feel is in the best interests of the children. At times these efforts evolve into accusations that the other parent is “bad” causing the child to side with one parent over his/her dislike for the other. This world is rife of parents using their children as pawns in the dirty game of divorce or where children are born out of wedlock. We have all heard of the old saying “no maintenance no kids” or “you left me so you won’t see your kids”. Parents don’t realise the damage they are doing in using their children as a means to get back at the other parent.

So often you hear about a mother complaining that a father sexually abused a child, with no evidence to substantiate the claim, simply in an attempt to isolate the father from having a relationship with the child or a mother obtaining a restraining order against a father simply to restrain the father from having a relationship with a child. Although it seems to be mostly women that play this deadly game, there are also fathers who use their children as pawns against the mother. Unfortunately in battles of this sort attorneys are sometimes also to blame and fuel the battles on behalf of a client losing sight of what the best interest of a child really means. Depriving the other parent of a relationship with his/her children is possibly one of the most devious methods to ruin a solid society.

“Parental Alienation Syndrome” (PAS), is a term first used by the late child psychiatrist Richard A. Gardner in 1985. Dr. Gardner studied the behaviour of parents involved in child custody disputes. He noted that sometimes the children align themselves with one parent. While this is natural to a degree, Dr. Gardner noticed that in some cases it could be extreme to the point it borders on a physiological disorder. He described the so-called disorder or syndrome as follows:

“Its primary manifestation is the child’s campaign of denigration against the parent, a campaign that has no justification. The disorder results from the combination of [either deliberate or unconscious] indoctrinations by the alienating parent and the child’s own contributions to the vilification of the alienated parent”.

The American Psychiatric Association is contemplating adding PAS to the new edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, scheduled to be published in May 2013. William Bernet, a professor of psychiatry at the Vanderbilt University School of Medicine and an advocate for its inclusion in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, describes it as “a mental condition in which a child, usually one whose parents are engaged in a high conflict divorce, allies himself or herself strongly with one parent, and rejects a relationship with the other parent, without legitimate justification.”

The form of PAS most experienced is that of negative words by one parent about the other, leading the child’s thoughts and attitudes in the same direction. The alienating parent might also cause the child, through manipulation and access blocking, to unjustifiably fear and/or hate the target parent. The parent with primary residence may engage in direct and indirect methods designed to alienate the child from his or her non-residential parent. As a result the child becomes preoccupied with unjustified criticism and hatred of the non-residential parent. This sometimes lead to brainwashing which result in conscious acts of programming the child against the other parent”. Examples include accusing the father of being an “adulterer” and “deserter.” The father is unjustifiably accused of providing too little maintenance, sometimes to the point that the mother misleads the children to believe that terrible things will happen to them. When a father leaves the home, the mother may make statements such as, “your father has abandoned us,” to teach the child that the rejection extends not only to the mother but to the c. children as well. Minor negative attributes one the father’s side are exaggerated greatly. For example, the father who occasionally has a drink after dinner is described as an alcoholic.

Section 35 of the South African children’s act criminalizes the refusal to allow someone access or who holds parental responsibilities and rights in terms of a court order or a parental responsibilities and rights agreements that has taken effect, to exercise such access or parental responsibilities and rights. It also criminalizes prevention of the exercise of such access or parental responsibilities and rights. Punishment for any of these offences is a fine or imprisonment for up to one year. The section further obliges a person who co-holds parental rights and responsibilities with another person in terms of an agreement or court order to notify the other party in writing immediately of any change in his/her residential address. Failure to notify such party will result in an offence.

Bertus Preller

Family Law Attorney

Abrahams and Gross Inc.

Tel: 021 422 1323

Email: info@divorceattorney.co.za

Follow on Twitter: @bertuspreller

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Monitoring Communications in the Workplace

March 18, 2012bertusLatest News0

By Lindsey Thorpe

The Regulation of Interception of Communication and Provision of Communication-Related Information Act, 70 of 2002 (“RICA”) has become more commonly associated with cell phone sim card registrations. It is a generally unknown fact that this Act deals extensively with, in addition to the above, communications in the workplace.

The Act regulates an employer’s right to intercept or monitor the communications of the employees in the working environment. It is of paramount importance that the respective rights of the employer and the employees are balanced. The employer has a right to protect his or her proprietary interests while the employees have the right to protect their right to privacy.

In the recent unreported case of Smith and Partners in Sexual Health (Non-Profit) CCMA (WECT 13711-10) the CEO of a company accidently gained access to one of her employee’s email accounts, mistakenly believing it to be the company’s account. In the emails, the employee complained about her job and her employer and informed others about the goings on at the company itself. The employee was dismissed and took her case to the CCMA where it was held that she was unfairly dismissed. The court in this case did not rely on RICA and instead placed more weight on who owned the Gmail account. The Court concluded that the CEO had no right to read the employees emails since it was her personal account (on the employer’s computer).

The Court should have taken into account the several exceptions contained in RICA in coming to its decision. An employer may rely upon these exceptions in order to justify any monitoring or interception of an employee’s communications. An interception, according to the Act, may be ‘authorised’ in various ways, including: if the employer is a party to the communication or if the monitored party has provided written consent.

In addition, RICA provides that the employer will be justified if he or she will be able to prove the communication was intercepted in the course of the carrying on of any business; if that communication relates to that business, or which otherwise takes place in the course of the carrying on of that business .Importantly, the interception must be effected by, or with the express or implied consent of the system controller, for the purposes of monitoring or keeping a record of indirect communications; in order to establish the existence of facts if the telecommunication system concerned is provided for use wholly or partly in connection with that business; and if the system controller has made all reasonable efforts to inform in advance a person who intends to use the telecommunication system concerned that indirect communications transmitted by means thereof may be intercepted.

Therefore, in order to prevent civil litigation by employees should the employer be found to be monitoring or intercepting their communications, employers must ensure that their employees are fully aware of any policies regarding interception or monitoring and these policies should be included and explained in detail in the employment contracts. Should an employer fail to comply with the provisions of the Act, he or she runs the risk of being convicted of a criminal offence, and could be forced to pay a fine not exceeding R2 000 000 or be imprisoned for a period not exceeding 10 years.

LINDSEY THORPE

Candidate Attorney

ABRAHAMS & GROSS INC

Attorneys, Notaries & Conveyancers

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PO Box 1661, Cape Town, 8000

Tel: (021) 422 1323 Ext 243 Fax: (086) 628 3402

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Email: lindseyt@abgross.co.za

 

The battle for spousal maintenance – from a practical view

March 3, 2012bertusLatest News0

What is spousal maintenance?

Maintenance, or “alimony” as it is called in other jurisdictions, is that monetary relief paid by one party to another in respect of one’s personal living expenses or that of a child.

There are effectively three sources of such maintenance obligations: (1) the reciprocal duty of support between spouses, (2) a successful Court Order in respect of post divorce maintenance and (3) that maintenance obligation incurred by operation of law. I shall address each one separately below:

  1. During a marriage each spouse owes to the other a reciprocal duty of support, provided that the person claiming such support is actually in need of it and that the other spouse can actually provide same. This support includes clothing, food, medical services and other necessities and is balanced by the couple’s social status, their means of income and the cost of living.  This reciprocal duty terminates upon the dissolution of the marriage by death or divorce. Effectively, what this means is that, say, if the main bread winner stops supporting the other party (often the home maker), the home maker can approach a Maintenance Court (as detailed below) and launch the appropriate application to compel the breadwinner to comply with his/her duty of support.
  2. Upon dissolution of the marriage by divorce, the Divorce Court (being either a Regional Magistrate’s Court or High Court) may make an award of maintenance in terms of the Divorce Act which can have the effect of being “rehabilitative” in nature (being for a defined time) or “life long”. Without going into depth on the factors the Court will use in determining the award, suffice to state that such maintenance orders made by these Courts are binding. That said, Maintenance Courts are empowered to vary such order on application in terms of the Maintenance Act. Therefore, where a party who is receiving maintenance in terms of, say, a divorce order in the High Court and such maintenance is too low, that party can approach the Maintenance Court for an order increasing the maintenance payable. Likewise one who is obliged to pay maintenance to an ex-spouse can approach the Maintenance Court for an order decreasing or discharging the maintenance order if he/she cannot afford same.
  3. One of the most common ways that a party is responsible to pay maintenance “by operation of law” is the instance where one is a biological parent of a child, irrespective of whether you are regarded as a co-holder of parental rights and responsibilities or not. Although such obligations are not “spousal” per se, such complaints are usually sought against an ex-spouse. In terms of the Children’s Act, if you are the biological parent of a child, you are obliged to pay maintenance in respect of that child’s living, schooling and other costs. Effectively, where a biological parent is not contributing to the child’s expenses the party with whom such child is residing may bring an application of a Maintenance Order on the child behalf.

The Process

The process is usually initiated in the Maintenance Court within the area where “the person to be maintained” is ordinarily resident. Admittedly, the process is a lengthy and often frustrating one, but with the help of the right attorney, it can be “streamlined” to a certain extent.

The process can be simplified as follows: (1) issuing of the Application on oath and completion of the relevant schedules, (2) having the application served on the Respondent, (3) appearing before a Maintenance Officer in chambers who will enquire as to the claim and attempt to facilitate a settlement, (4) a trial in open court should the parties not settle the matter amicably.

Helpful Tips

  •  Seeking the right legal advice is fundamental to ensuring that the application is “water tight”. The Application document is the foundation of your claim and one must invest in getting it right from the start.
  • Having full and detailed records including all slips, invoices and bills for a period of 3 months. Start collecting your slips and filing them in an orderly fashion as these will be your “proof” of expenditure which will be vital to your case. Start an Excel spreadsheet and input the figures in order to idea on your expenses.
  • Be patient and thorough in your preparations and when at Court.

Conclusion

Don’t let a recalcitrant ex-spouse or biological parent prejudice your or your minor child’s claims to maintenance. The Maintenance Courts are there to provide a remedy to persons needing of relief.

Brent Jachs

Litigation, Commercial and Matrimonial Attorney.

Abrahams & Gross Inc.

021 422 1323

info@divorceattorney.co.za

Mobile Phone Hacking and the Rica Act

November 27, 2011bertusLatest News0

Man probed for spying on wife

MONICA LAGANPARSAD | 27 November, 2011 – Sunday Times

A MILLIONAIRE Pretoria businessman is at the centre of a criminal investigation over the alleged illegal interception of his estranged wife’s private e-mails, SMSes and BlackBerry messages, or BBMs.

The hacking was first suspected when Dr Graham Hefer – a former Natal rugby player – filed divorce proceedings against his wife Denise.

Court documents in that case seemed to show that Hefer had access to more than 50 BBMs, over a dozen SMSes and at least five e-mails between Denise and others this year.

The case has revealed that the BBM facility, one of the preferred “secure” methods of communication can be hacked with relative ease.

Hefer, 48, the managing director of a Nigeria-based British company, is accused of installing spyware software on 49-year-old Denise’s BlackBerry. This type of spyware is readily available.

This is said to haveallowed real-time monitoring of her communication and her whereabouts, and for eavesdropping on her private conversations. These included discussions with her lawyer.

Police confirmed that the matter was under investigation by the Cape Town Central Police Station. Interception and monitoring of telephone communication is prohibited under the Regulation of Interception of Communications Act, known as Rica.

On Wednesday Denise filed a criminal complaint in which she claimed that Hefer had allegedly violated section 2 of Rica, which carries the possibility a fine of up to R2-million or up to 10 years in prison.

In an affidavit, she said she first became suspicious when her husband beat her to filing for divorce in May.

She said she had confidentially instructed her lawyer to issue summons to begin divorce proceedings.

She was shocked when Hefer ‘s attorney, without having been informed who her legal representative was, issued summons at her lawyer’s office.

”What I could not understand was how the accused and his attorney’s knew who my attorney of record was,” read her affidavit.

She claims her husband mentioned details of confidential discussions she had had with her lawyer, which led her to believe her phone had been hacked.

Her lawyer, Bertus Preller of Abrahams & Gross, said the allegations were serious. “There was a grave injustice towards the party involved in that it infringed attorney/client confidentiality,” Preller said.

Denise claims an investigation by her legal team revealed that a type of cellphone spyware, which can be purchased on the internet for R2 792, had been installed on her handset.

The software sends alerts to the e-mail address of the installer, who then has access to the telephone calls or messages on the phone being monitored.

Hefer’s lawyer, Selwyn Shapiro, who said he had advised his client not to comment, said the allegations were unfounded.

”We will deal with it at an appropriate time in the right forum,” said Shapiro.

Kathleen Rice, head of technology, media and telecommunications at law firm Cliffe Dekker Hofmeyr in Johannesburg, said Rica allowed for the interception of communication – but only in police investigations, ”and that can only be done with a court warrant. BBM messages are indirect communication but, if it’s being intercepted and monitored, that makes it a criminal offence .”

Spousal Maintenance is a discretion, not a right.

November 17, 2011bertusFamily Law, Latest News0

The recent case of AV v CV 2011 (6) SA 189 (KZP) is of interest in respect of whether a spouse was entitled to maintenance as of right. The court was of the opinion that awarding spousal maintenance was in the discretion of a court and not a right per se.

This was a matter where the granting of life long maintenance by the court was taken on appeal.  The trial court made an order in the following terms:

  1. ‘That the bonds of marriage subsisting between the plaintiff (present respondent) and the defendant (present appellant) be and are hereby dissolved.
  2. That the defendant be directed to pay maintenance to the plaintiff until her death or remarriage at the rate of R12 000 per month.
  3. That the defendant be directed to retain the plaintiff as a beneficiary on his current hospital plan or any equivalent replacement thereof and to pay the premiums in respect thereof timeously and in full.
  4.  That the defendant be directed to pay all amounts due in respect of the VW Polo 1.9 motor vehicle timeously and in full until the purchase price and all interest thereof has been paid in full.
  5. That the defendant be directed to pay the plaintiff’s costs of suit.’

The appellant appealed against that part of the order contained in par 2, 3, 4 and 5.

 The Facts

The parties were married to each other at Durban on 18 December 1993 in terms of an antenuptial contract, whereby the accrual system was excluded. No children were born of the marriage. This was a second marriage for both parties. The appellant had two children from his previous marriage and the respondent four children. Both parties’ children lived with the couple during the marriage.

During 1995 the marriage relationship became strained largely because of financial difficulties. This led to the parties’ separation in 1997/1998. The respondent left the appellant because she was very unhappy in the marriage. The parties reconciled after a year of separation. The respondent claimed that the parties had always battled financially until she started a new job. In May 2007 the parties were finally separated.

The Law

The court a quo exercised its discretion afforded to it in terms of s 7(2) of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979 (the Divorce Act) and made its findings and delivered its award. Therefore, a court of appeal could only interfere when the court a quo in exercising its discretion misdirected itself or its discretion was not exercised judicially.

On behalf of the appellant it was argued that the court a quo misdirected itself in granting the respondent a permanent maintenance award.

At common law a spouse has no right to maintenance upon divorce. Section 7(2) of the Divorce Act confers discretion upon a court to make a maintenance order which it finds just, having regard to the following factors:

(a)   The existing or prospective means of each of the parties;

(b)   the respective earning capacities of the parties;

(c)   the financial needs and obligations of the parties;

(d)   the age of each of the parties;

(e)   the duration of the marriage;

(f)   the standard of living of the parties prior to the divorce;

(g)   the conduct of the parties insofar as it may be relevant to the breakdown of the marriage;

(h)   any redistribution order made in terms of s 7(3) of the Divorce Act; and

(i)   any other factor which in the opinion of the court should be taken into account.

The authors Hahlo & Sinclair in their book The Reform of the South African Law of Divorce (1980) stated the following at 33:

‘(T)he idea that marriage ought to provide a woman with a ”bread – ticket” for life is on its way out.’ This passage was quoted with approval in Grasso v Grasso where the court stated further at 57H – I:

‘Middle-aged women who have for years devoted themselves full-time to the management and care of the children of the marriage, are awarded rehabilitative maintenance for a period sufficient to enable to be trained or re-trained for a job or profession. Permanent maintenance is reserved for the elderly wife who has been married to her husband for a long time and is too old to earn her own living and unlikely to re-marry.’

The court found in this case that the respondent was not entitled to maintenance as of right, but must persuade the court to exercise its discretion in her favour. In doing so, she has to provide a factual basis for a maintenance award to be made before the quantum and duration thereof are determined by the court.

In Grasso supra the court, having regard to the duration of the marriage, ie 15 years, and the fact that the plaintiff had not worked for most of the marriage and was not working at the time of the divorce, awarded maintenance to the plaintiff. The court also took into account the conduct of the defendant (husband), which was regarded as ‘gross misconduct’ and which ‘must inevitably play no small part in deciding whether or not he should be ordered to pay maintenance to the plaintiff.

In Rousalis v Rousalis, the court stated at 450G – H:

‘A wife of long standing who has assisted her husband materially in building up his separate estate would in my view in justice be entitled to far more by way of maintenance, in terms of this section, than one who did no more for a few years than share his bed and keep his house.’

In Kroon v Kroon, the court found that, having regard to the duration of the marriage, ie 20 years, during which the plaintiff (wife) did not work in the open market but fulfilled the role of housewife and mother, she should be awarded maintenance. However, the court stated at 632F – G that:

‘(T)he Courts do not today distribute maintenance with any degree of  liberality to women who can and ought to work after divorce.’

In the matter of Robert v Robert (DCLD case No 933/2002, 10 March 2003), an unreported judgment, Gyanda J declined to award maintenance to a spouse who was unemployed at the time of divorce on the basis that the marriage lasted only five years, although the plaintiff was no longer a young person to be readily employed. It was a second marriage, and the period during which she enjoyed maintenance in terms of rule 43 had been sufficient to constitute rehabilitative maintenance.

In McCarthy v McCarthy (CPD case No 5570/2003, 15 December 2004), an unreported judgment, the issue in dispute was not whether the wife was entitled to maintenance or not, but the amount and period of such maintenance. The parties were married for 25 years and two children were born into the marriage. The wife had not been employed since 1981. She, however, obtained a BA degree after ceasing employment. The court found that there was no fault to be attributed to either of them in causing the marriage relationship to disintegrate. The court ordered rehabilitative maintenance.

In the case related to this article the parties were married to each other for 15½ years. No children were born of the marriage. It was the second marriage for both the appellant and the respondent. The appellant had two children and the respondent had four, all from previous relationships. At the date of divorce the respondent was 54 years old and was employed earning a monthly net salary of R7980. Her highest level of qualification is Grade 10. She had completed an informal typing course. She was also computer-literate.

The conduct of the parties is undoubtedly a relevant factor to be considered in determining a claim for maintenance in terms of s 7(2) of the Divorce Act. The marriage was of some duration. The reasons given by the respondent for the breakdown of the relationship are trivial. The Langebaan incident and the issues that the appellant had with her children cannot be regarded as ‘gross misconduct’ on the part of the appellant. The difficulties which the appellant and the respondent experienced in accommodating children born of marriages with other parties, within their marriage, coupled with the fact that the parties battled financially, may have placed a strain on their marriage.

The court in Beaumont, referred to the clean-break principle at 993B – F and stated:

‘(O)ur Courts will always bear in mind the possibility of using their powers under the new dispensation in such a way as to achieve a complete termination of the financial dependence of the one party on the other, if the circumstances permit. The last-mentioned qualification is, of course, very important; I shall return to it in a moment. The advantages of achieving a clean break between the parties are obvious; I do not think they need be elaborated upon. The manner of achieving such a result is, of course, by making only a redistribution order in terms of ss (3) and no maintenance order in terms of ss (2). What I have said earlier with regard to the Court taking an overall view, from the outset, of the possibility of making an order or orders under either ss (2) or ss (3) or both, does not mean that the Court will not consider specifically the desirability in any case of making only a redistribution order and awarding no maintenance, having regard particularly to the feasibility of following such a course. With regard to the latter and to the qualification I stressed a moment ago (if the circumstances permit), there will no doubt be many cases in which the constraints imposed by the facts (the financial position of the parties, their respective means, obligations and needs, and other relevant factors) will not allow justice to be done between the parties by effecting a final termination of the financial dependence of the one on the other. In the end everything will depend on the facts and the Court’s assessment of what would be just.’

In the case related to this article the respondent was 54 years old and the appellant is 53 years old. They have been married for 15 ½ years. The respondent was still employed and was computer-literate. In the court’s view the parties had to be allowed to get on with their lives and the appellant had to be relieved of his obligation to maintain two households. This was not a case where the appellant is able to afford and therefore he must maintain. The parties had come to a point in their lives that there should eventually be a ‘clean break’ between them.

Regarding the uncertainty as to what the future holds and the respondent’s prospects of continuing in her employment after reaching 60 years, the court in Beaumont supra stated at 995G – I:

‘Both parties will inevitably suffer hardship because of the parting of their ways. In relation to the areas of uncertainty it is impossible to assess accurately the relative degrees of hardship which each of the parties will suffer, depending upon what assumptions are to be made. Where choices are to be made and decisions to be taken in the dark, as it were, and where the areas of uncertainty are not due to any remissness on the part of the respondent to place available information before the Court, it would be fair, because of the appellant’s misconduct, to allow the scales of justice to be tipped in favour of the respondent and against the appellant, rather than the reverse.’

Section 7(2) of the Divorce Act states that in exercising its discretion, the court has to take any other factor into consideration in making a maintenance order. This includes the misconduct of the parties.

The assets of the respondent amounted to R301 331 as compared to the appellant’s assets of R155 356. The respondent conceded that her assets were more that the applicant’s. The court was of the view that if the respondent can cut her cloth according to her size, she was able to maintain herself on her assets and means.

In awarding maintenance to the respondent, the court a quo compared the present case to Rowe v Rowe (DCLD case No 6166/01), an unreported decision, where the wife, 58 years old, had no formal qualifications and was employed as a receptionist. She had not worked during the duration of the marriage. She was awarded open-ended maintenance. The court in the matter related to this article found the two cases to be distinguishable. Unlike in Rowe the respondent was computer-literate and was employed. In relation to the uncertainty of whether she was be able to continue in her employment after reaching 60 years, ‘it was impossible to assess accurately the relative degrees of hardship which each of the parties would suffer’. To find that she cannot be rehabilitated to become self-supporting was in the court’s view, a misdirection.

The court dismissed the wife’s claim to maintenance.

International Divorce in a South African Court

October 30, 2011bertusFamily Law0

If a Defendant (the person against whom the divorce is instituted) lives in another country, a Plaintiff must first approach the court by way of what is known in law as an Edictal Citation application, a Defendant may direct in an appropriate way acceptance of the Summons at an address in South Africa. The process affords permission to a Plaintiff to serve the divorce documents on a spouse living in a  foreign country by way of local service.

The proprietary consequences of a marriage are governed by the lex domicilii matrimonii, that is the laws of the place where the husband was domiciled when the marriage was concluded. The law of the husband’s domicile at the time of the marriage governs the matrimonial property regime of the spouses even if the husband subsequently acquires a new domicile.

If for example the husband was domiciled in England at the time of the marriage and no Antenuptial contract was entered into in South Africa, the marriage will be out of community and in terms of English law. Should the parties later emigrate to SA, the marriage would remain out of community of property. Thus in a contested divorce where the husband was domiciled in England at the time of the marriage, a South African court is obliged to apply English law in respect of the patrimonial consequences of the divorce, i.e the division of the estate. Maintenance however and the aspects surrounding the children, like maintenance, care and contact will be dealt with in terms of South African law.

We have been dealing with numerous international divorce matters in South Africa matters concerning South African citizens and has acted in matters for South Africans living in countries such as Australia, United Kingdom, USA, Indonesia, The United Emirates, Germany, New Zeeland, Namibia to mention but a few and have been able to finalise some of these matter in as little as three weeks.

For further information email: info@divorceattorney.co.za or call 021 422 1323

Divorce and Children

October 29, 2011bertusFamily Law0

DIVORCE – Don’t play chess by using your children as pawns

This world is rife of parents using their children as pawns in the dirty game of divorce or where children are born out of wedlock. We have all heard of the old saying “no maintenance no kids” or “you left me so you won’t see your kids”. Parents don’t realise the damage they are doing in using their children as a means to get back at the other parent.

By isolating or alienating the children from the other parent is damaging not only to the other parent but even more damaging to the children. As a family law attorney I have seen cases where one parent will go to immeasurable lengths to isolate the other parent from building a parental relationship with his/her children, thereby depriving the children in the process of the only stability they may have left.

So often you hear about the mother that lays sexual molesting charges, with no substance against the father simply in an attempt to isolate the father from having a relationship with the children or a mother obtaining a Domestic Violence interdict against a father simply to interdict the father from having a relationship with his children. Although it seems to be mostly women that play this deadly game, there are also fathers who use their children as pawns against the mother. Unfortunately in battles of this sort there are also attorneys who fuel the battles on behalf of their clients and who somehow lose sight of what the best interests of the child really means. Depriving the other parent of a relationship with his/her children is possibly one of the most devious methods to ruin a solid society.

In terms of section 33 (2) of the Children’s Act parents who experience difficulties in exercising their parental responsibilities and rights in respect of a child must, before seeking the intervention of a court, first seek to agree on a parenting plan. The section discourages co-holders of parental responsibilities and rights from approaching the court as a first resort when they experience difficulties in exercising those rights and responsibilities.  This section does not compel parents to enter into a parenting plan, it simply instructs them to attempt to agree on one. Looking at this section closely it seems that where one parent refuse to engage in such discussions the court may be approached for then an attempt to agree on a plan was made, even if it was doomed from the start.  Section 33(5) instructs a person to seek the assistance of a family advocate, social worker or psychologist, or mediation through a social worker or suitably qualified person in preparing a parenting plan. It is therefore clear that before approaching the court, a person must first seek such assistance. If the other party is not amenable to engage then obviously a court may be approached.

Section 35 of the Act criminalises the refusal to allow someone who has access or holds parental responsibilities and rights in terms of a court order or a parental responsibilities and rights agreement that has taken effect to exercise such access. It also criminalises prevention of the exercise such access. Punishment is either a fine or imprisonment of up to one year.

About the Author:

Bertus Preller is a Divorce Attorney in Cape Town and has more than 20 years experience in most sectors of the law and 13 years as a practicing attorney. He specializes in Family law and Divorce Law at Abrahams and Gross Attorneys Inc. in Cape Town. Bertus is also the Family Law expert on Health24.com and on the expert panel of Law24.com and is frequently quoted on Family Law issues in newspapers such as the Sunday Times and Business Times and magazines such as Noseweek, You and Huisgenoot, and also appeared on SABC television on the 3 Talk TV show. His clients include artists, celebrities, sports people and high networth individuals.